Hmm I definitely am a one woman man. Trust, commitment, communication, respect and a smile are all very important to me. Sometimes I am slow to learn some of life's lessons but I do learn, so patience is a quality that is important in the special lady for me. I am close to my family and friends and enjoy spending time with them also. I am, unfortunately, divorced and find that I miss the touch and closeness of a special person in my life. The challenges and the laughter. The feeling of having a person to make and share a life together as friends, teammates and lovers is something that is important to me. I like to travel, rugby, reading, opera, classical music, older rock and roll. I'm learning to dance, health, mountains, sand and ocean but only if I can apply the sunscreen on my lady :). I love the fall. and prefer cooler weather to hot, I sunburn... ouch! Dining with friends and sharing good conversation. Being with someone that I care about for walks or quiet times, listening to great music in front of a fire with some wine or Port. Candles? I actually am a romantic even as a Capricorn! I am looking for a woman who has healthy outlook on life. A happy person, athletic/healthy, perhaps spiritual. positive, funny, loving, believes and lives in truth, a friend and soul mate. willing to communicate her feelings, dreams and fears also. committed to working together for a long lasting, permanent, loving relationship. Ability to speak English is important. I am certainly willing to learn more Spanish (I understand a little) or Portuguese for the right woman as I am a strong believer in communication.